My sister was out visiting from Massachusetts. She’s able to come down two to three times a year or so and on this occasion it was near my birthday. We were both sitting at the kitchen table and I was showing her some Vera Bradley merchandise that I was lusting over. I had been looking at the purses for quite a while and fantasizing over which pieces I would buy and which colors I would get. I finally narrowed it down to three pieces: a tote bag, hair clips, and wallet (matching of course with the tote). I was showing her on my laptop at my kitchen table. I had gotten some birthday money and was thinking about purchasing the items. The problem was that I was not used to spending so much money at one time, never mind spending it all on myself. I simply could not click on the “place order” button on the screen.
My sister couldn’t understand why I was hesitant. I had the money and I would enjoy them, wouldn’t I?
“But, Jen, it’s so much money. I can’t spend $150 on myself!” I said.
“Oh, just buy the damn purse!” Jen said. She reached over me and clicked the place order button on the check out screen.
It was done. I felt strangely elated. What had I done? I bought the damn purse, that’s what I did. When it came I enjoyed it just like I knew I would. It was so pretty and the colors were so bright.
Some time later I was at the florist when I saw beautiful pink roses with purple tips in the storage fridge. They had to have been the most perfect roses I’ve ever seen but they were $5 a bloom and flowers look best when in threes. I looked at the carnations that were $1.50 a bloom. I debated whether I should spend $15 verses $4.50 on flowers that would die in about a week anyway. The florist came around and asked if she could help me. I couldn’t rationalize spending $15 on flowers when I could spend $4.50 and get flowers that were also as nice.
I heard my sister’s voice say clearly in my head “Just buy the damn flowers!”
“I’ll take three of those pink roses please” I told the florist. I took them home and put them in a vase where they graced my kitchen table for a whole week with their beauty and elegance. They continued to bloom in the glass vase and I could smell their perfume whenever I sat at the kitchen table. Money well spent for my pleasure.
My family went to Calico Ghost Town where they used to mine silver in the otherwise barren Southern California desert. Now it’s a tourist destination where they show how life was like there in the late 1800s during the silver rush. I used to go there frequently as an elementary school student on field trips.
Calico Ghost Town hasn’t changed in the past 20 years since I’ve been there. There is still a shop that sells pretty rocks and crystals. I was enthralled with the deep purple amethyst rocks when I was there as a young girl. I used to have one that I kept on my bookshelf in my room when I was a kid. I don’t know what happened to it since then. But when I saw the amethyst rocks at the shop in Calico Ghost Town, I thought how nice it would be to have one again. I picked up the prettiest rock and was surprised at how much the shop wanted for one. They started at $15 and went up from there. I saw one that was about $400! The deeper the purple they were the more expensive they were. I didn’t want to spend that kind of money on a rock! I moved on to look at other things in the store but I kept coming back to the amethyst display.
The third time I returned to the display, I asked myself if I would enjoy it. Would I regret not leaving Calico Ghost Town with it? And then, quite clearly, I heard my sister’s voice say “Just buy the damn rock!”
So I spent $25 on a rock. My amethyst is sitting on the kitchen counter where I can enjoy its deep purple color while I wash the dishes and cook meals. Money well spent.